The start line at any race is an interesting place as it gives you an opportunity to strike random conversations with strangers. Sometimes these little chats can end up changing your perspective towards life and be a recipient to several inspiring stories.
One such episode occurred couple of months ago at the starting line of the Ironman 70.3.
I was standing there observing people around me. Some were grim faced as though they were about to enter an operation theatre while others were cracking jokes and laughing their hearts out. It was at that time I noticed this lady standing just a few feet away. Our eyes met and instantly we exchanged smiles. Walking up to her I introduced myself and we eventually got talking about our reasons for attempting this grueling race.
“So, what’s your story?” I asked her.
“Well I used to be a really competitive runner. At one point, I was so obsessive about breaking timing barriers that it took a toll on me. I was asked to take it easy and that’s when I switched to triathlons. Recently I have been diagnosed with tumor and I wanted to attempt this Ironman race which has been on my bucket list.”
Taken aback, I was at a loss of words for a while.
“I..I..am sorry to hear this.” I finally managed to say. “I am sure you will make it to the finish line.”
“Ahh I hope so too.” She smiled. “I would like to enjoy this experience, something that I didn’t do earlier.” She replied with a faraway look in her eyes.
I looked at her and her face had a flurry of emotions written all over it. Regret? Remorse? Anxiety? Wistful? Maybe a combination of everything I thought.
As the horn blew, it was time to begin the race. I looked at the rising sun and offered a silent prayer hoping that this young lady would achieve her goal.
Neither did I ask her name nor did I see her after that. Yet I came out with a precious and a vital lesson that day. Probably more precious than the finishers medal.
It made me realize that there was more to life than just obsessing over personal bests or podiums. While its quite normal to feel thrilled about good performances, letting it get to our heads will cause nothing but misery and regret in the long run.
Life is an uncertain road ahead and as a certain filmy dialogue goes “Kya pata kal ho na ho.”